Bradshaw on the family : a new way of creating solid self-esteem / John Bradshaw.
By: Bradshaw, John [author].
Material type: BookPublisher: Deerfield Beach, Fla. : Health Communications, 1996Edition: 2nd ed.Description: xxii, 305 p. : ill. ; 23 cm.ISBN: 1558744274.Subject(s): Family -- United States -- Psychological aspects | Self-actualization (Psychology) | Family -- Religious life -- United StatesDDC classification: 306.85Item type | Current library | Call number | Copy number | Status | Date due | Barcode | Item holds |
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General Lending | MTU Bishopstown Library Lending | 306.85 (Browse shelf(Opens below)) | 1 | Available | 00085940 |
Enhanced descriptions from Syndetics:
Based on the public television series of the same name, Bradshaw On: The Family is John Bradshaw's seminal work on the dynamics of families that has sold more than a million copies since its original publication in 1988. Within its pages, you will discover the cause of emotionally impaired families. You will learn how unhealthy rules of behavior are passed down from parents to children, and the destructive effect this process has on our society.
Using the latest family research and recovery material in this new edition, Bradshaw also explores the individual in both a family and societal setting. He shows you ways to escape the tyranny of family-reinforced behavior traps--from addiction and co-dependency to loss of will and denial--and demonstrates how to make conscious choices that will transform your life and the lives of your loved ones. He helps you heal yourself and then, using what you have learned helps you heal your family.
Finally, Bradshaw extends this idea to our society: by returning yourself and your family to emotional health, you can heal the world in which you live. He helps you reenvision societal conflicts from the perspective of a global family, and shares with you the power of deep democracy: how the choices you make every day can affect--and improve--your world.
Previous ed.: 1988.
Includes bibliographical references (pages 285-289) and index.
Overview: The crisis -- The family as a rule-bound social system -- Profile of a functioning family system -- Profile of a chronically dysfunctioning family system -- Compulsive families: checklist for how your self-esteem was damaged in an addicted family -- The persecuted: checklist for how your self-esteem was damaged in a sexually or physically abusing family -- The "bad" child: checklist for how your self-esteem was damaged in an emotionally abusing family -- The most common impact of chronic family dysfunction: co-dependency -- Road map for recovering your disabled will: stage I - finding a new family of affiliation -- Road map for uncovering your lost self: stage II - breaking the original spell -- Road map for discovering your true self: stage III - spiritual awakening and compassionate social action.
Table of contents provided by Syndetics
- Preface to the First Edition (p. vii)
- Preface to the Revised Edition (p. xi)
- A Parable: The Story of Hugh (p. xxi)
- 1. Overview: The Crisis (p. 1)
- 2. The Family as a Rule-Bound Social System (p. 23)
- 3. Profile of a Functioning Family System (p. 43)
- 4. Profile of a Chronically Dysfunctioning Family System (p. 67)
- 5. Compulsive Families: Checklist for How Your Self-Esteem Was Damaged in an Addicted Family (p. 97)
- 6. The Persecuted: Checklist for How Your Self-Esteem Was Damaged in a Sexually or Physically Abusing Family (p. 127)
- 7. The "Bad" Child: Checklist for How Your Self-Esteem Was Damaged in an Emotionally Abusing Family (p. 159)
- 8. The Most Common Impact of Chronic Family Dysfunction: Co-dependency (p. 181)
- 9. Road Map for Recovering Your Disabled Will: Stage I--Finding a New Family of Affiliation (p. 205)
- 10. Road Map for Uncovering Your Lost Self: Stage II--Breaking the Original Spell (p. 225)
- 11. Road Map for Discovering Your True Self: Stage III--Spiritual Awakening and Compassionate Social Action (p. 245)
- Epilogue: Revising Traditional Values (p. 267)
- References (p. 285)
- Index (p. 291)
- Videotapes and Audiotapes (p. 305)
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Library Journal Review
Bradshaw (Family Secrets, LJ 1/95), a well-known speaker and author on such topics as addiction, recovery, and spirituality, has released a revised version of John Bradshaw: On Family, which first accompanied his 1984 television series. In this edition, he speaks out on the need for democracy within the family, as opposed to a patriarchal model of family relations. Throughout, Bradshaw refers to earlier models of child rearing as "poisonous pedagogy," and he is deeply committed to changing parenting within today's families and helping adults damaged by the parenting they received to rebuild their self-esteem. He uses many of the techniques of Adult Children of Alcoholics and similar groups in helping the reader identify problems and repair damage. Earlier editions of this book have sold more than a million copies, so public libraries will certainly have a demand for this title.-Kay L. Brodie, Chesapeake Coll., Wye Mills., Md. (c) Copyright 2010. Library Journals LLC, a wholly owned subsidiary of Media Source, Inc. No redistribution permitted.Author notes provided by Syndetics
John Elliot Bradshaw was born in Houston, Texas on June 29, 1933. He received a bachelor's degree in sacred theology and a master's degree in philosophy from the University of Toronto. He taught at the University of St. Thomas for a year. In 1964, just days before he was to be ordained, he left the Basilian Order.He eventually checked himself into an alcohol-treatment program at a state hospital in Austin. On being released, he returned to Houston and attended Alcoholics Anonymous meetings daily for the next three years. He soon began teaching adult Sunday school classes at Palmer Memorial Episcopal Church and working with addicts in the church's drug-abuse program. He also appeared on local television as the host of a talk show entitled Spotlight and found himself in demand as a lecturer on family psychology.
In the early 1980s, he did a television series on the psychologist Erik Erikson's eight stages of man, which was broadcast on PBS. He also created a 10-part series entitled Bradshaw On: The Family, which also aired on PBS. He wrote numerous books during his lifetime including Bradshaw On: The Family, Bradshaw On: Healing the Shame That Binds You, Homecoming: Reclaiming and Championing Your Inner Child, Creating Love, Family Secrets: What You Don't Know Can Hurt You, and Post-Romantic Stress Disorder: What to Do When the Honeymoon Is Over. Many of his books were turned into PBS specials. He died of heart failure on May 8, 2016 at the age of 82.
(Bowker Author Biography)